Thursday, January 28, 2016

Definition of family is what you make it

Have you have though yourself where do I belong? I know I have a lot. And to tell you the truth I'm still not so sure of where I do belong. Everyone has their own interpretation of where home is, and what family is. To me family is the peop that care and live for you no matter what goes on in your life and they will always stick by your side. So yeah to me family is blood because if it was well then I don't know my family and I don't have one, but family isn't about the DNA at all really, I mean scientificly yes it is all about DNA but FYI I'm not a scientist so family isn't all about blood to me. I consider a lot of my best friends my family also because they are there for me when I fall and they help me get up. I was born six week premature and born at home, and then my biological parents took me to the hospital and left me there for the doctor and nurses to take care of and after like a few weeks there the hospital gave me to an orphanage and I was there for 9 months until Ann and Terry Council came and adopted me all the way from Austin Texas! At the time I was half way across the world from them all the way in Chita Siberia. They gave up their time to invest in a little girl hopeless and alone, they came and got me. And to me THAT is family right there. Did they have to leave all that they knew for 9 day to travel half way across the country? No, but they did because family, because DNA doesn't matter in the long run, what matters is who will stay by you when your troubled, when your gone my through some tough situation. My friends Paige and Kenna have been there for me these past few weeks when I was going through a tough situation and I can't thank them enough, to me THEY are family. So in the end the definition of family is kinda what you make of it, whether you completely disagree with me and think family is DNA, or if you agree with me, or even if you have your own definition of family, I'm not gonna tell you what family is cause that's not my job but just remember the ones that stay are meant to stay for a reason and the ones that leave? Well they are also meant to leave for a reason.




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